Off topic help please

[dailyrider123]

I know this doesn't have ***** to do with car audio but I need help to see if my significant other is bullshitt!ng me. OK my significant other just recently been on fb something that have caused problems between us in the past due to past people popping up still trying to talk to her. How do I catch her if she is private messaging some guy back and forth? She uses and iPod touch to get on fb...if someone can enlighten me please let me know because I work all day and I need to see if some way if she is doing so, I hate to be played as a fool.

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[garychoffmann 10+ year member]

Jealousy, posessiveness and not trusting kill relationships faster than IM's. But, ask her for her login information. Or her icloud id. If she isn't transparent I would ask her why. Being direct is the better option.

 

[trust fund baby]

There are spy apps out there. Dl one.

 

[Kai Winters 10+ year member]

If trust is an overwhelming issue I'd end the relationship and move on. Not easy but for peace of mind I'd prefer it over constant worry...and I've been there...

 

[jRi0T68]

This likely isn't even the real problem.

What's the worst that could come from her messaging others? Possible cheating.

Why would a woman cheat? Because she's unhappy in the current relationship and feels like her needs aren't being met. Is this the case for you? If so, this is the problem. Address this issue.

If not, then you may have some issues with insecurity, possibly stemming from past hurt. If so, address this issue.

 

[Kai Winters 10+ year member]

Good points...well said.

 

[adulbrich 5,000+ posts]

If it doesn't have shit to do with car audio, it goes in the Thunderdome //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[JohnFoster]

You can use bug detectors to spy on him.

 

[Papermaker85 5,000+ posts]

I know this doesn't have ***** to do with car audio but I need help to see if my significant other is bullshitt!ng me. OK my significant other just recently been on fb something that have caused problems between us in the past due to past people popping up still trying to talk to her. How do I catch her if she is private messaging some guy back and forth? She uses and iPod touch to get on fb...if someone can enlighten me please let me know because I work all day and I need to see if some way if she is doing so, I hate to be played as a fool.

If she talks to them against your will or even allows ********. She is not worth the misery. On the other hand chances are if you feel that way your right. Some peopke arent "jelious" and are trusting but those people usually cheated before and have low to No morals. Id never give a girl i cared about any reason to not trust me or be jelious.

Scorpio? Or aries?

 

[the727kid 10+ year member]

Whats her facebook page? I am sure we can help.

 

[Umbra]

This was two months ago, he probably killed her by now